Sunday Jan 20th
So yesterday I moved in with home stay family where I'm gonna live for the next 8 weeks. It's a gorgeous huge house right on the river. My family is made up of my mom, my sister, my aunt and my grandma. This morning my brother was here too but he wasn't here last night and hasn't been here since so I'm not sure if he lives with us. I don't know any of their names because they told me to call them mom, sister and aunt. They have three dogs two of which I'm not allowed to touch because they will bite me. One of them I'm not even supposed to go within 3 feet of. The house is gorgeous. Its a raised house with gorgeous thick teak flooring and a huge living room.
Last night I went on a bike ride with my sister and she showed me all different kinds of rice, the banana trees, the coconut trees, the mango trees and the papaya trees. So basically I live in paradise.
Last night was funny because I don't have very good language skills so I would try to understand what they were saying and I would explain, "Di-chan kao-jai 'pom' gap 'dha lat'. Di-chan mai kao-jai" or in english, "I understand 'I' and 'market'. I don't understand". So it ended with basically them trying to talk to me and me either pretending I understood despite the fact that I had absolutely no idea what the eff was going on and then they would laugh at me or I would just say mai kaojai and they would laugh at me. Either way we all ended up laughing which I would say made it a success.
Today I had breakfast which was basically chicken(gai) broth with a bit of rice(kaao) and vegetables(paak). After finishing breakfast my sister and I decided to go for a bike ride to visit another PCV Molly down the road. We went to Molly's house and saw the roosters that her family cockfights and these crazy huge fish that reminded me of the sand snakes in beetlejuice. They were like two feet long and apparently they bite like a dog. We also saw her families catfish. We were given candy and treats there and while we were there two other volunteers arrived to say hi. So then we went to their house because they live next door to each other and their hosts are part of the same family. When we got to this house we had a birthday party for my sister and another PCV Jill so we had banana cake, green mango, butter crackers and something else that I'm forgetting. Then the plan was to go to my house but the leader of the group stopped at a roadside noodle place because she thought we needed lunch. Keep in mind its about 11:30 and all I've done today was bike maybe 10 minutes and eat. So yeah, I'm not super hungry. Thankfully neither are any of the other PCVs so they decide to take us to the mini mart across the street instead which has all sorts of different soap, many different kinds of rice, pepsi, lots of flavored milk(I'm pretty sure thats what it was but it was weird because there was orange flavor and a green flavor and other weird colors)
Things I learned Jan 19-20
I love mankoot(mangosteens).
I know everybody says it but the Thai people are always eating.
Papaya salad is really fricken spicy.
Pii-Saao(sister) Shy is trying to teach me thai script so I learned how to write my name in Thai script. [update: now that it's been a few days she is my nong saao(younger sister) not my pii-saao(older sister)].
Molly's home stay brother Bank taught us a new card game Slaf that it turns out is a lot like Asshole - I'm actually pretty sure its the same game without all the drinking. [update: I feel stupid (nothing new). It turns out slaf is actually kun Bank not being able to pronounce a V so this game is actually just called Slave and is precisely Asshole]
Its illegal to gamble in thailand. This was the answer when I asked if people bet on the fighting roosters so I'm pretty sure they still bet on them but they were just telling me that gambling is illegal.
In the afternoon (on sunday at least) my entire family individually tells me to take a nap around 2:30. I don't know If thats what you do on Sundays midday or if I looked particularly tired but after the 4th person in the family told me I could/should take a nap I just gave in and parked my butt in the hammock made of bailing twine(yeah, not the most comfortable but I only realized that after I was already in it) to read a book aka read two pages a pass out.
Lightning Mcqueen is even popular in Thailand.
Things I learned Jan 21
Today we had some more medical training so I learned poop jokes are still hilarious to me.
My family owns a tour bus company and they have at least 4 buses and the "go everywhere in Thailand". My brother who is 20 DRIVES one of the buses. CRAZY!!! Just think about that. In america he couldn't rent a car without extra insurance or whatever and he drives up to 50 people around in a double decker sleeper bus. Insanity.
In the thai sitcom that my family follows(and I am now pretty addicted to even though I've only watched 3 nights) the main girl kissed the main guy on the cheek and it was super crazy and exciting. I almost wanted to laugh but I was genuinely so excited.
glue-ay batch - banana in coconut milk
Jan 21
I learned a lot of thai in the last couple days too but I always seem to forget it by the time I have to use it again so I'm not sure that I've really LEARNED it. Anyway today was our first day of school again after our first couple nights at home stay so it was nice to reconvene and talk through how awkward the weekend was. one funny story involves these things called pakimas which the dude's use to cover up when they are going to and from the bathroom or just lounging around the house. they are kinda sarong like and girls have a similar thing and I can't remember the name[Update:Pasin or Pasim is the name] Anyway, you have to tie them both in a specific way in order to have them stay up and the thai's are very very good at this because they've been taught since they were two. PCTs, however, are terrible. In our training sessions everyones was on the verge of falling down and looked it, while the training staff looked as if they were wearing pressed skirts. Anyway so this one guy Brandon apparently was walking around with his mom doing morning chores and most Thai house compounds(most of the houses I've seen are part of a family compound) have a little prayer house thing at the front of them. So he was helping his home stay mom do the offerings and he does the incense and the wai(bow) to the first one and the second one and when he steps to the third one his pakima drops to his knees. He immediately drops and picks it up and covers himself. For the rest of the day his host mom told everyone that came ever to meet him.
I haven't had much embarrassment as of yet. weird right? I'm not sure what it is. I mean I bet if I understood anything that they were saying I'd be pretty embarrassed. It was pretty funny when I was skyping on sunday and I happened to be outside. When my family heard that I was talking to someone they all came and sat around the computer with me. They got really excited and my mom started showing Sam all these pictures of her when she was younger which she still hasn't even shown me. It was funny and interesting but I totally wasn't expecting and hadn't really planned for that. I'm not sure if they realized he was drinking whiskey and I wasn't gonna point it out no matter how jealous I was. Speaking of which, I haven't had a sip of alcohol or a cigarette since I've been here. It hasn't really been difficult if only because I'm so busy. I do wish I could have a beer in the evening but it's not really appropriate for Thai women and PC wants us to set ourselves apart from tourists and act the part of our Thai counterparts and actually in most cases be more restricted or formal than even our Thai counterparts.
Okay also last thing before I head to bed for the night. I hope my writing style doesn't bother you because I'm probably not gonna change it anyway. But in the case that it does just pretend its in my voice and it gets easier to read. I speak in run-on sentences with all sorts of clauses and so thats how I'm writing this, otherwise I would have to edit and stuff and then I would never post anything.
Jan 22
So a little update I'm in training from 8 til 4:30 every day and my home stay family wakes up at 6 to do chores and I try so hard but no matter what time I set my alarm somehow I cant wake up before 6:30 so I'm the 'lazy' person in the house. Also I'm the leader of our biking caravan to the training sight so I've got to be at the first stop at about 7:20 at which point we then pick up 4 other people and then bike for about 30 minutes to the hub site, which actually changes today so it might be more like 45 minutes. The past few days haven't been bad because it's been from 7:30 to 8:30 so it's still only about 70 but as of tomorrow we are doing a lot of our morning classes in our respective subdistricts and then the after noon portion at the hub so not only will I have to bike longer but it will be directly in the middle of the hottest part of the day(about 90 degrees because remember this is the COOL season). I have wifi at my house which feels very luxurious but I'm trying not to use it a lot because I want to try to acclimate so I'm only letting myself be on for about a half hour or so a day unless I'm skyping which had only happened once so far but again thats basically because I don't have time.
Jan 23
So I've been learning so much it feels like I'm gonna explode of learning(also I'm kinda already speaking broken english because I'm trying so hard to learn thai). Some fun things that I learned in the last couple days:
-My yii(grandma) when I asked what she liked to eat answered green soda, which is super adorable. She's 81 and often will just smile at me and gently hold my arm or put her hand on my knee while we watch the Thai soaps. She's the best. Also I still don't know her name.
-In thai when you talk about how many siblings you have you count yourself. So I have 3 piinong. Me Molly and Annie
- In thai, cats say meow; frogs say gop(hard g); dogs say hong and Pigs say oot. (oo as in too)
- They sell tiger balm here and it's the only thing that will make my legs/ankles/toes stop itching from mosquito bites.
- My meh(mom) is 43 and named bon chuu(this might be wrong because it doesn't really make sense because the word name is in the name). My bpaa(aunt) is 52 and is named Pra. My bpaw(dad) is 48 and named Pri Cha. My saao(sister) is 15 and named Shy and my yii is 81 and named Lu In. Now for all these names 1) I'm pretty sure I'm wrong and 2) if I'm not wrong they are still probably nicknames or something that I should call them as opposed to their actual names. For instance, Pri is something that you put in front of peoples names who are older than you but younger than your parents. Nong is something that you put in front of peoples names who are younger than you and Bpa is something you put in front of people your parents ages and older.
- funny story - yesterday I realized that I have been consistently telling people that I was 28 and so today my saao was telling someone that I was 28 and I had to try with my limited thai to tell her that I was an idiot and I forgot how old I was and that I was actually 27 not 28. Needless to say my thai was not really up to snuff. So now I'm pretty sure she thinks I'm an idiot and crazy and that she was the one who was wrong so, ya know, all good stuff.
I wanted to post something on here because I've been writing but not posting because I didn't have pictures. I'll upload pictures of my house and some other stuff this weekend hopefully. Also, I'm so crazy that I actually had to look up at the corner of my computer and got really excited that it's thursday and that means only 1.5 more days of classes til I don't have class for a WHOLE DAY!!!! Hope all is well over there and I'm missing you all and wishing you were all here.